Favoritism at Work
Favoritism at Work
Introduction
In an ideal world, success is the byproduct of hard work, performance, and skill. However, in many modern organizations particularly within the unique cultural landscape of Sri Lanka decisions are not always merit based. Often, employees are treated differently due to personal relationships, school ties, or internal politics. This is workplace favoritism, and it is a silent predator of organizational health.
What is Favoritism?
Favoritism occurs when managers grant special treatments
such as promotions, choice assignments, or rewards to certain employees based
on personal bias rather than objective performance. While it may seem like a
localized issue, research indicates it can cause systemic damage to both the
individual and the collective.
The Sri Lankan Reality
In Sri Lanka, where interpersonal relationships and hierarchy are pillars of the social structure, favoritism can often be normalized. This is often seen through:
- Preferring employees from the same hometown or social
circle.
- The "Old Boys’ Club" mentality where school
loyalty outweighs professional KPIs.
- A culture that rarely questions authority, allowing
biased decisions to go unchallenged.
Why It Hurts?
To understand the damage, we must look at two
core psychological theories. Favoritism
can be clearly explained using.
Equity Theory- Proposed by J. Stacy Adams,
This theory suggests that employees compare their input (effort, skills) with outputs (rewards, recognition). When employees feel that others are receiving unfair advantages, they experience dissatisfaction and demotivation. This is quite common in workplaces where favoritism exists.
Another important concept is Organizational Justice, which focuses on fairness in the workplace. It includes:
- Distributive justice (fair rewards)
- Procedural justice (fair processes)
- Interactional justice (respectful treatment)
In Sri Lanka, helping a "known person" is often seen as a social duty or a sign of loyalty to one's community. This creates a conflict where a manager may feel they are being a "good person" by helping a friend, while simultaneously being a "bad manager" by violating procedural justice.
When favoritism occurs, all three types of
justice are affected. Employees begin to feel that the system is unfair, which
reduces trust in management.
Research strongly supports these ideas. A
recent study found that beliefs of favoritism reduce employee trust,
commitment, and willingness to contribute to the organization. Similarly,
another study shows that favoritism leads to lower job satisfaction, increased
cynicism, and weaker organizational performance. In some cases, employees may
even consider leaving the organization. A 2025 study confirms that favoritism
increases turnover intention, especially when employees feel that rewards are
not distributed fairly.
In Sri Lanka, this can be seen in both private and public sector organizations. For example, an employee who consistently performs well may be overlooked for promotion, while another employee with closer ties to management is promoted. Over time, this creates frustration, reduces motivation, and weakens team spirit.
However, it is important to understand that favoritism does not always happen intentionally. Sometimes, managers trust employees they are familiar with, which can lead to unconscious bias. Research also suggests that strong emotional attachment to the organization can make employees ignore or justify unfair practices.
To reduce favoritism, organizations must take practical steps. First, they should implement transparent HR policies, especially in recruitment, promotions, and performance evaluation. Second, managers should be trained to recognize and control personal bias. Third, organizations should encourage open communication so employees can raise concerns without fear.Conclusion
Addressing favoritism is not just an ethical requirement; it is a business necessity. By moving away from personality based management toward a culture of transparency and ethical leadership, Sri Lankan organizations can unlock the true potential of their workforce and build a more productive, loyal, and innovative environment.
References
- Cropanzano, R., Anthony, E.L. and Daniels, S.R. (2021) ‘Justice at the workplace: A review of fairness theories and their impact on employee outcomes’, Journal of Organizational Behavior, 42(3), pp. 321–345.
- Hofstede, G. and Bond, M.H., 1984. Hofstede's culture dimensions: An independent validation using Rokeach's value survey. Journal of cross-cultural psychology, 15(4), pp.417-433.
- Islam, T., Ali, M. and Ahmed, I. (2022) ‘Understanding the impact of perceived favoritism on employee outcomes: The mediating role of organizational justice’, Journal of Management Development, 41(5), pp. 412–428.
- Khan, M.A. and Noor, S. (2023) ‘Favoritism in organizations: Causes, consequences and mitigation strategies’, International Journal of Organizational Analysis, 31(2), pp. 567–584.
- Marescaux, E., De Winne, S. and Sels, L. (2021) ‘HR practices and employee performance: The role of fairness and trust’, Human Resource Management Journal, 31(1), pp. 262–279.
- Nguyen, P.V., Tran, K.T. and Nguyen, T.T. (2024) ‘Workplace relationships and their influence on perceived fairness and employee engagement’, Employee Relations: The International Journal, 46(1), pp. 89–105.
- Rasool, S.F., Wang, M. and Tang, M. (2022) ‘How toxic workplace environment effects employee engagement: The mediating role of organizational support and employee well-being’, International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 19(5), pp. 1–15.
- Sarfraz, M., Qun, W. and Abdullah, M.I. (2025) ‘Impact of workplace favoritism on turnover intention: The role of organizational justice’, Journal of Business and Management Research, 14(1), pp. 45–60.



This is a really interesting read. It feels very real, especially in our context where connections and loyalty sometimes influence decisions more than performance. You explained the impact in a very clear way.Just wondering, how can companies keep that human side of relationships but still make sure decisions stay fair and based on performance?
ReplyDeleteThanks for your thoughtful comment Madavi. You’re right relationships are important, but companies should not let them override fairness. The best way is to set clear performance criteria, use transparent evaluation systems, and ensure managers are trained to make unbiased decisions while still respecting good workplace relationships.
DeleteInteresting and very real issue in workplace culture. From an HR perspective, favoritism destroys fairness, trust, and team motivation, because employees start feeling that performance doesn’t matter, connections do. It slowly reduces productivity and creates conflict in teams. But I’d argue sometimes what people call favoritism is also poor communication of performance criteria , so HR needs to ensure transparency in decisions, not just control behavior.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment Umeash. You’ve raised a very valid point. Sometimes what looks like favoritism can also come from unclear performance criteria. That’s why HR should ensure clear communication, transparent evaluation systems, and consistent standards so employees understand how decisions are made and trust the process.
DeleteThis is a strong explanation of how favoritism undermines fairness and trust in Sri Lankan workplaces. Transparency and bias training are definitely needed to address it.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your feedback Risna. I agree with your point. Transparency in decision-making and proper bias awareness training are important steps to reduce favoritism and build trust in the workplace.
DeleteGood one and it provides a very honest and insightful look at how favoritism can damage trust and morale within a team. I agree that when rewards are based on personal connections rather than merit, it discourages high performers and creates a toxic work environment. Addressing these issues with transparent policies and fair leadership is essential for building a truly motivated and productive workforce.
ReplyDeleteThank you Saranga for your feedback. I agree with your point. Favoritism can reduce trust and motivation, especially for high performers. Transparent policies and fair leadership are important to create a positive and productive workplace.
DeleteThis was a really interesting read. Favoritism can be commonly seen and heard in workplace realities in Sri Lanka. I think many people have actually seen or experienced this at some point, even if it’s not openly discussed. The part about it being “normalized” in certain cultural settings really stood out to me, because sometimes it’s not even seen as unfair, just the way things work. But over time, it can be quite demotivating for those who are putting in effort. Do you think employees in Sri Lanka are starting to speak up more about favoritism, or is it still something most people just accept?
ReplyDeleteThank you Nathasha for your comment. You are right. In Sri Lanka, favoritism is still mostly accepted quietly, but things are slowly changing. Younger employees are becoming more aware and starting to speak up, even though many people still stay silent.
DeleteThis is a very insightful discussion that clearly highlights how favoritism undermines fairness, trust, and overall organizational performance. The connection to Equity Theory and Organizational Justice is particularly strong in explaining why employees become demotivated when decisions are perceived as biased. I also agree that in high power distance cultures like Sri Lanka, addressing favoritism requires not just policies but also a shift in leadership mindset and accountability.
ReplyDeleteWhat is your view on how can organizations create safe reporting mechanisms so employees can raise concerns about favoritism without fear of negative consequences?
Thank you for your valuable feedback Nadun. You’ve made a great point. Organizations should create safe and confidential reporting systems like anonymous feedback channels or third-party reporting options. At the same time, leadership must ensure no retaliation happens, so employees feel safe to speak up without fear.
DeleteThis is a very strong blog. I like how you have connected favoritism to theories like Equity Theory and Organizational Justice, which makes the analysis both academic and practical. The Sri Lankan examples, such as the Old Boys Club mentality and high power distance, really capture the cultural context and show why favoritism becomes systemic rather than isolated. The emphasis on transparent HR policies, bias training, and open communication is very relevant and these are practical steps that organizations can take to reduce unfair practices. Overall, it’s a timely reminder that tackling favoritism is not just about ethics, but about building trust, motivation, and longterm organizational health.
ReplyDeleteThank you Shewan for your thoughtful feedback. I’m glad the link between theory and Sri Lankan workplace culture came through clearly. You’re right—addressing favoritism is not just an ethical issue but also essential for building trust, motivation, and long-term organizational success.
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